STICKY SITUATIONS
Caught in another situation? Here are several situations that we have been through. We have thought that these situation have made us stronger and helped us throughout our lives. Maybe they will help you too~
Situation Number ONE : From Stuck
~ Hello Shirley and Chloe! I just had a problem recently and would like your help. Okay, so here it is. More than one person invited me to the movies today and I don't want to let anyone down....What should I do?
--Stuck
--Stuck
Dear Stuck,
~ I recently was caught in a situation like this. . .
---- Well, eventually, I had to deal with it sooner or later. For my advice, you can do one of the following=
ONE) You can just NOT GO to the movies with your friends.
TWO) Choose one of your friends and tell the other ones that you are not going with them and that you are going with someone else.
THREE) hmmm....you can also...tell all of your friends that invited you to go ALL TOGETHER. If one of you guys have problems with each others, then you can always tell them to stop fighting and that friends are very valuable.
HOPE THIS HELPS~! Come back again if you have another problem!!
--Chloe and Shirley
~ I recently was caught in a situation like this. . .
---- Well, eventually, I had to deal with it sooner or later. For my advice, you can do one of the following=
ONE) You can just NOT GO to the movies with your friends.
TWO) Choose one of your friends and tell the other ones that you are not going with them and that you are going with someone else.
THREE) hmmm....you can also...tell all of your friends that invited you to go ALL TOGETHER. If one of you guys have problems with each others, then you can always tell them to stop fighting and that friends are very valuable.
HOPE THIS HELPS~! Come back again if you have another problem!!
--Chloe and Shirley
Situation Number TWO : From Joanne Kim
I have homework in my new school and it is like SUMMER HELLOOOO??????? You have to READD and write SUMMARY and DRAW and stuff -_- Should I just readddddddd EVERY SINGLE DAY or just CRAMMMMMMMMM on last week of vacation??????????????? p.s. school opens back in August 10
Dear Joanne,
Hmm....Well, cramming everything in one day wouldn't do so well. IF you think about it, the teacher assigned homework for a specific reason. You know......to get smart? Hmm...if you think about it another way, you can't really do reading ALL in one day. Summer is 108 days , or less, and in that many days, there is about 2592 hours. Can you read for that long? And always, there is never that many hours in a full day. Wrapping it all up, you should read everyday, draw everyday, and write a summary everyday. Enjoy it! It maybe something fun! Hope this helps!
--Chloe
Hmm....Well, cramming everything in one day wouldn't do so well. IF you think about it, the teacher assigned homework for a specific reason. You know......to get smart? Hmm...if you think about it another way, you can't really do reading ALL in one day. Summer is 108 days , or less, and in that many days, there is about 2592 hours. Can you read for that long? And always, there is never that many hours in a full day. Wrapping it all up, you should read everyday, draw everyday, and write a summary everyday. Enjoy it! It maybe something fun! Hope this helps!
--Chloe
Situation Number THREE : From Toffee Chocolate.
I went to my best friend's birthday(I will use the name Rose for her) and she told her other friends she didnt have a party so they wouldn't get jealous.. "Rose" told me NOT to tell one girl (Example name Sabrina) but I already did. So now Sabrina hates Rose and they want me to pick a side... Should I pick sides? I'm afraid if I DO pick sides, one will be mad at me, but if I DON'T pick sides, they will both be mad at me... I really don't wanna lose either friends.. :(
Dear Toffee Chocolate,
Your question is "Should I pick sides?" Well, OF COURSE not. Whenever you have two people to chose from, don't be so "jugdemental" and don't pick the one that you think is best. Well, instead, you should tell them your feelings. Also. tell them how you feel and how you don't like being a tie-breaker. If you want to gain both friends back, it is best to have a talk-to-talk with them--and please, don't discriminate your friends. You can tell them how valuable they are to you and without them, the world would be incomplete. Hope this works! Come back for more suggestions! :)
--Chloe
Your question is "Should I pick sides?" Well, OF COURSE not. Whenever you have two people to chose from, don't be so "jugdemental" and don't pick the one that you think is best. Well, instead, you should tell them your feelings. Also. tell them how you feel and how you don't like being a tie-breaker. If you want to gain both friends back, it is best to have a talk-to-talk with them--and please, don't discriminate your friends. You can tell them how valuable they are to you and without them, the world would be incomplete. Hope this works! Come back for more suggestions! :)
--Chloe
Situation number FOUR: From Parker Sanchez.
hello.i am parker from oregon and i want to ask a question for sticky situations. everyone in my middle school is calling me fat because i have a double chin and I don't have the best grade in p.e. This girl told me to go on a diet and she snickered after she said that. Everyone else is skinney. Why can't I? --Parker Sanchez
Dear Parker,
Hi! My question to you is "Do YOU think that you look fat?" Because if YOU don't care, others shouldn't either. And you shouldn't care!!! What makes you you, is your personality. NOT your looks. I'm positive that you are a beautiful girl! Your true friends won't care about how you look. If your friends make fun of you, they aren't good friends. Ignore those who bully you. Hope this helped!!! Feel free to contact us again!
--Shirley
Hi! My question to you is "Do YOU think that you look fat?" Because if YOU don't care, others shouldn't either. And you shouldn't care!!! What makes you you, is your personality. NOT your looks. I'm positive that you are a beautiful girl! Your true friends won't care about how you look. If your friends make fun of you, they aren't good friends. Ignore those who bully you. Hope this helped!!! Feel free to contact us again!
--Shirley